A sense of achievement, that of a winner is one of the best, addictive feelings for most of us, aren’t they? It feels like a dumb, dull life , impossible to live without those moments. What kind of goals can give the best of those feelings? – The ones truly yours.
Lets say, If you are the only one in this world, what will you do to live that emotion, of an achiever, that of winner? No one to watch you, you are the only one living. No one to race against but yourself. No titles, no awards, no rankings. What will then be your goal to pursue, what will you do to feel that winner in you?
These winning moments you earn for yourself in no relation to others are the ones that will forever make you feel an achiever. Others fade off when those others go away. The goals by you, for you, that you believe in are the ones packed with that ever lasting, ever relevant sense of achievement.
Those are goals seen only to you with no clue to others. Goals with roads only you can make and choose. Others will see no roads but barriers. Your goal as tiny, little and unimportant. But it is your goal, meant for your sense of achievement. When you believe in it, hear no more, read no more, follow your heart for this is the goal you will cheer for rest of your life.
When you can dream of reaching your goal, when you can live it up in your mind screen, your eyes get that amazing power to see only your goal amidst all distractions. Distractions dark or bright, wide or narrow your eyes see it through, locked on your goal. For a goal worthy of your determination and your sense of achievement, the path is not going to be easy. It is the challenges you win along the path that adds greatness to your goal.
No paths? you will make one. Dead ends? You will extend them. Never ending? you will be determined to seek the end
It is that determination that keeps your focus intact, it is with that your get closer. A positive mind not only wins over the challenges but gifts itself an opportunity to relish them and appreciate the beauty along. Like a journey, the greatness of the goal is not when it is met but on the pursuit. Never miss those details of beauty.Never ever miss an opportunity to be thankful for those unique encounters with your challenges.
Biggest curse of our mind is the sense of belongingness to those that appear like us. That makes us think we are not unique. Dare to be alone, don’t let any one steal your dreams. Losers can only show you what pulled them down, it is only on you to see what can pull you up. It is never over until you say it is over.
Live for your goals and that living is that of fun and happiness. Appreciate every step, every milestone you get to cross, Never deny that fun the kid in you deserves. No matter how old you are, there is a kid in you that wants to play. Be at your pace, this is no race.
Beliefs are good as long as they take you where you want to be. You may call it faith, prayers, Gods. Have beliefs, have faith.There are none called non-believers. Some believe in existence, some believe in non-existence of the same; both believe in something. Your belief is your personal. You can choose to believe the way you want. Pray the ones that makes you strong.If those prayer wheels makes you feel closer to your goals, why not spin them along the way.
With your best put in and your mind enjoying every step of it, it is amazing how inviting and encouraging the challenges turn out. You don’t focus on the pains any more but will rather appreciate your unique encounter with every challenge.
Even the worst pain mellows down seeing your goals closer. That amazing feeling of an achiever, that of a self satisfying triumph gives you the speed, courage and energy.
When you surrender to your goal it spells its magic on you. The last few steps are never yours, it’s the goal that magnifies itself and absorbs you into.The goal handles you now. Pray it, respect it, obey it for it can make you a greater person. Let the “I” wither off and lose yourself into it’s magnificence.
When you reach the top, take that deep breath you have been saving all along your journey. Realize the greatness in you, invest time to realize the limitlessness of your mind. If that were to be your last day, you will be content because you achieved a goal truly yours.
Be you, be phenomenal, be amazing and move on to your next dream. To dream is to breathe, to make them real is to Live. Share, laugh, love, live. For this life is yours and once.
Have a goal truly yours and enjoy that journey