Dont's While Travelling With your New Date

Before I’ll present to you the list of significant things that you should never do on your first month date, I should congratulate you because you somewhat find a potential partner. Dating is not that easy; every individual experienced pressure and tension every time they go on dates.

However, even though you reached the “one-month dating” it is not an assurance that you will live with this man forever. Admiration may change over time, reflecting circumstances, stresses, and the everyday ups and downs experienced by both individuals.

So, here are the significant things that you should never do with your current date while travelling:

1. Don’t use the “L” word.

As what I have mentioned on my previous articles, dating is the primary stage of every romantic relationship. It is the time that both of you want to know the other person very well. So, it is not the perfect time to say “I love you.“ to your date. Keep your date from getting overwhelmed — and guard your own heart — by taking things slow. There’s plenty of time for love talk. In the meantime, just keep things at “like” and reassure your date that you’re interested in moving forward.

2. Making plans for the future.

It is not good to create future plans with your date. This rule gets voided once you’re in a serious, committed relationship, otherwise, no one could ever make marriage vows but in the first month of dating, keep plans for the future at a minimum. It is better to be safe rather than to be called as desperate.

3. Do not talk about your wedding.

In romantic dates, wedding plans are not welcome. You should know that no one wants to hear that you’ve been planning a wedding on your own. It can come across as too eager or worse, desperate. Try to take it slow and go easy. This is the best thing that you can do as of this time. What I mean is that a good place to start is to be sure you aren’t pushing too hard too fast. There is nothing wrong with letting the person you are interested in have the reigns and set the pace for a while.

4. Do not introduce your date to your entire family.

You should bear in mind that a one-month dating is not that serious. Set aside the one-month dating as getting-to-know-you time. You don’t want your parents coming to conclusions about where the relationship is headed before you do. You introduce your guy if you feel that it is the perfect and right time.

5. Don’t share your childhood achievements that much.

There are boys who couldn’t resist on sharing how wonderful they were when they were young. You can observe this immediately because the only thing that he would discuss during your date is the achievements he got during those younger days.

6. Sharing your past relationship.

It is a total turn-off, girl! Don’t do that! It is better to start by introducing yourself briefly. Past relationships must not be a topic on your current date. In addition, don’t overwhelm your date with unnecessary and bitter details in the early stages of a relationship.